Real self-love isn't about bubble baths, doing our nails, eating well, and taking care of our bodies. Although those things are wonderful for us and we should definitely do them, they don't fall under the category of self-love, but rather self-care. A woman who does not truly love herself very much may still engage in self-care, ironically often from a root of self-loathing rather than real self-love. Self-love is demonstrated instead through what we will and will not tolerat